Hi again !! Don is on the Mark !!! Dexterity ,,, Control !!! # 1,2,3 Practice !!!!! Break down the flourishes that you wan't to learn into segments ,,, Get each segment down then incoroerate it all !!! When I start to feel overwelmed I slow down for a day or two !!! For me,, it is just fun ,,, Do not try to tackle the real hard flourishes right off the bat !!!! Unless you are one of those very talented people, Remember That it is a new muscle control in your hands,, Give it time !!!! and it all will explode to your favor !!! Practice till the sun goes down !!!!